The unspoken Fate

Hello peeps, I thought I could finish all the post by 2013. But end up still dragged to 2014. Anyway, at least I'm bringing happy post to 2014 instead of bad one.^^ Happy New Year everyone!

As I mentioned earlier in my previous post that I will blog about HIM in my next post. So, I didn't break my promise ya. Just a little bit late to blog about him as we were passing our 2013 Christmas at Penang, Malaysia. So time are limited for me to prepare his Christmas present and to handover my job to my assistant. He told me that he has waited for my next blog until long necked. Haha! Alright, here you go...

The story that we met is very impracticable that's why I called it "fate" (we call it "缘份" in mandarin). The way we found each was very mainstream. Just like everyone else searching around through "Wechat" apps. Haha! People say meeting up stranger through the social network is not preferable, and you may put yourself in danger. But "Wechat" apps has a features that you may share your moments in it.So before we meet up in real, I did observe and analyse HIM before we plan to meet up. 

    

In the beginning, I thought he is a "flirter" *sorry my dear XD* from the way he chat with me. We knew each since October 2013. We seldom chat, but we left comments on each shared moments in WeChat. So I guess he analyses me too larh. Lol.  

 We normally leave comments on Moments than chatting. 

 Hitting multiple "likes" on both Moments proven we are aware of both existence

Then I found out we have common interest on food and wine which brings us closer. 

So, our first met was on 18 November 2013. Whereby I invited him to come over my place as he said his friend / client (cannot recall who's the one) presented him a bottle of wine. He wasn't sure how's the wine taste like. So invited me to taste it with him. At first I was not sure it is correct to offer my place as the venue for our first met. But since I was suffering insomnia again on that night and I have all the wine equipment at my place. So, just go ahead with it.  

Was a great chat with him on that night. And we did actually found out many interest in common after chatting the whole night. Just the DOB has enough to give me a shock. He asked me when is my birthday. "June" I answered. He gave me a big eyes surprised look and proceed with his second question "Omg, June when?". "29th?" I said it with doubt like is there any problem with my birthday. Lol. He took out his IC and showed it to me as he knows I'm quite a self- protective person and I showed him a very suspicious look which I don't believe people's word easily. Although our birthday is not exactly the same but we shared the same month not the year anyway. His birthday is just a day before me - 28th June. I meant how coincident to meet a friend which just working a short distance from my work place, going to the same cafe -Donutes (and we did not notice each other before), both are wine lover, Japanese food and spicy food craver and just a day in different on the birthday. 

Alright, maybe it really just a "coincident". But time prove everything.

This is my second shock. We shared the same mattress. Wtf. But this was noticed after we are together. I brought him to my hometown - Malacca. He saw my mattress and he took a picture as he said this mattress look familiar. Then he sent me his current mattress to me after went back to KL. I was speechless. I mean having a same printing of mattress is common maybe. But how come a guy using it and how come is the guy that I met? haha! Anyway, he is not a Hello Kitty lover, just his mom changed the mattress for him.

 Slowly, we spent quite much time together. He loves Thai food too. ^^

 And he loves to take all my "ugly" photos and show it to me says it's "Pretty". Lol

 We start hanging around together. Having every meal together while working

Our first Donute Cafe man-made "fate" as we never see each there but both sharing Donute's beverage photos on Wechat's Moments. Lol. So basically, this is our first Yumcha place.

He dragged me out for sport. 

 Another common interest. We love to take photo. Haha! Does it counted? >.<

Donutes for Coffee & Tea lover. We can actually hang-out at here for hours as it open 24hours per day.

 

He purposely waits me drive back to KL from Melaka. He surveyed a new wine place for wine tasting.

The atmosphere is quite comfy. 

The staffs are friendly. One of the staff was humble enough to show us the wine underground storage room. And I'm almost frozen there. Lol. Tmeperature is like 7 degrees.

 Me & you

And picture of us

 Alright, those were a part of the photo we took before officially accepted him. ^^

He did confesses his feeling toward me a few times but I wasn't brave enough to accept as I was still in the middle of enjoying my single living and I have lost confident on relationship. He said he is willing to wait for the better answer. I was having a dilemma whether to accept or not as everything happened too fast, it's like very not logical. It might just a wrong perception. But I believe in fate and I might loss this man and I might regret if only I let him slip out from my hand. Haha!

After a long consideration, I accepted him on 28 November 2013. That will be my new and last anniversary date I hope.

His first tattoo.My second tattoo XD

 He wanted to engraves my name on his hand as he said I will be his last woman. So no need to worry to find a way to eraser it. Aww... I'm melting.

My heart actually melt every time he hold my hand and kiss it, and rub my hand with his incompletely grown beard. I love the way he loves me. Made me feel so comfortable and secure. I love you.

This is something that made me felt very touched and from this action I knew how important am I to him. Thank you for trusting me, dear. 

This is the man who willing to slot me into his busy schedule. Spending almost 80% of his time with me per day and never leave me alone.

Rex,I want us to last. I don't want to have an amazing couple of months and then let it be all over in a flash. I don't want to experience the feelings of hurt, confusion, and disappointment again. No matter what we run into & no matter how hard things get, please pass it together with me and share everything with me. You are special in every way. Thank you for being who you are. ^^ I love you!

Yes, it's true that we went through everything quite fast. But do you actually believe in fate? I believe. As Fate bring us together. ^^

Our 6th Anniversary ❤

Howdy y'all! I'm back from sickness. Recently climate keep changing like every second. Hot sun at this time, and no one knows what will happen next. Heavy rain? Hell ya...  unusual weather, like we are encountering end of the world soon *touchwood*. Almost all fall a sick including me as well.  Serious illness like the X-bacteria was injected to everyone's body. Continuous cough *non-stop like 24 hrs*, fever come-and-go, serious sore throat *it hurts every single time I swallow my saliva* and flu.  Ate all kind of medicines and now fever gone but still coughing and sore throat. ='( Have been searching all ways to relief the sore throat like drinking honey lime, salt water, fruits, and plenty of water. Now still having minor sore. Is okay. Cough is the one ruin my day and get worsen at night. Doctor said I have lung/ airway infection. Whenever I inhale air, my throat get dry and itchy then it causes me coughing like nobody business *waked my boy several time*. I have took the whole bottle of coughing syrup yet, coughing is still here. Help! ='( 

Aiks, was going to talk about our anniversary but end up with sharing how illness I'm. lol. Back to the topic. This is truely a super late post >.<" *very obvious, sick mah!* Our precious moment was on 10th of March 2006. Actually we have forgotten the actual  date we get along but we confirmed it was on March 2006. We picked 10th to make it easy to be remember and symbolized me *my chinese name: 1 0 pronouced the same with the numbering* This year celebration the boyfie think it's a mess as I was fall a sick and the plan was not smooth. We planned to celebrate at Hard Rock Cafe, Malacca. We were searching with no clue but someone told us the cafe is operating and it's nearby jonker street. We drove around and look every shoplot but we seen  non *follow google map direction*. It was locate at the opposite direction. *Hiew!* We were like so excited and parked the car near by and walk to the cafe. Once open the door we saw merchandises like Hard Rock cups, tees, and caps. That is not so-called "Cafe" lorh! The boyfie asked the staff. He told us the cafe is at upstairs and it's still under construction. *Meme face shown by me* - WHY U NO TELL EARLY!!! the boyfie was quite irritated by the luck on that day. He given me a give-up face. I told him is okay, celebrating the day is not the matter of luxury restaurant/ present/ expensive food but the meaning of the day. I told him I'm very happy as I have a boutique of roses and a meaning men celebrating this day with me. Maybe he can't feel my happiness as I was keep coughing and not much words on that day *thanks to the sore throat*. We looked for a few cafe unfortunately they're preparing to close. I suggested to Amigo *Malaccan know this place*. We often go there. We called the friends to join us but they know nothing about the day =). Told them when they saw the cake we bought. Asked them to guess. Most of them guessed correctly. Haha! This year just to share the day with friends. Not bad tho! =)

A simple yet happy day with You, my boy. Thanks for treating me so well. Love you! 

Day before our anniversary, I look back all very precious photos, love letters, cards, gifts, small notes and etc. So-called my treasure box. My mind immediately flashed back all the sweet and painful memories. On that time I can feel my life is so meaningful. 

the Philippian's maid and the "I'm not stupid 2 - Liew Guo Pin 2" .. lol.  the boyfie gonna kill me when he saw this. He noticed I was blogging, told me not to pick this ugly photo. But.. >.<" I insist! Although we both look noobies but this is where we start. ❤ 

When come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

Forgot to take photo with the flower. haha. Thanks for pampering me!

The next day, he signed-up an iPhone 4S for me. Thankiew. He said my phone is going to condemn soon *I have been using it for 4 years +*. 

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Draw Something! lol.

He must be very regret for buying the phone. Haha! 

Okay, bye! sleep now. Goodnite! Love ya baby boy!

thoughts and feelings - "感触"

Thought of blogging in Chinese today but too much of vocabularies have returned back to high school. Today, feeling like kinda emo, might be due to my complicated feelings fighting in my soul. Doesn't know how to describe. No idea what kind of chemical has injected into my heart. 

The bf fall sick and is making me worry like hell. His body was very hot and I was trying all ways to reduce the heat from his body and make him feel as comfortable as possible. He took a cold bath and laid on the bed with thick blanket. I was busy in the kitchen making something watery for his stomach to digest easily so that he doesn't need to chew hard with his dinner. Soup noodles will be the idle dinner for him. Made him one and he finished within 10 minutes. Praised me about the delicious food. I was touched and my heart melted as how can he be so sweet, caught with a high fever and doesn't seem a big matter to him, yet my worries become his concerned matter. Praised the food is nice and finished it - He is just wanting to pass me a message which is not to be too worries, and he will get well soon. I find no reason to stop loving and pamper him. 

Life is so colorful since he entered my life. His the one trying hard to make all my silly wishes came true, make me laugh like no body business and make me sobbing with happy tears.

He's the only one able to bear with my unbearable barbaric and stubborn behavior. He's the only one apologize to me although he thinks he did nothing wrong.  He loves and pampers me but he doesn't make me a worst person. He teaches , guides and reminds me when I'm almost acting like my enemies.

We cook and quarrel in the kitchen as I always think he is stupid in cooking, we are fine after the food is ready. Haha! But can't deny that he is good in frying omelette. I'm afraid of the hot splashy cooking oil but he is so brave to encounter that. So, when there is omelette as dinner, he will be the chef and I'll be the assistant, he'll be the hero and I'll be the zero. Anyway, it's great to have bf that willing to share housework with the girl. Not many bf volunteer to do housework. I'm quite satisfied with his attitude. haha!

He knows what I'm crazy of. He bought them although they are not worthy at all. As his view, he thinks nothing is unworthy than the priceless smile hanging on my face. 

We share funny stories and we gossip about others during supper time. We laugh hard and we joke around. We enjoy the moment like this and we should continue practice this. This make us understand each deeper. 

I love him a lot. He is kind hearted although people thinks that he has a naughty looking. But I know is good enough =) 

Our 6th anniversary is coming! Planning to do something memorable for him. 6 years of togetherness is not simple. Respect and honesty is the most important theory to hold on your relationship. I might said that we reached the stability line but at the same time we are entering to the next step which I think is maintaining the stability of relationship.  

Okay, gonna sleep now. His much better now. No more fever after the sweating. 

Goodnight!

an update of my sugie latest sleeping pose. haha!