I am not going to share what has happened, or to expose any names who did these to me as after all it was actually a personal matter.
But of cause, everything happens with a reason. I am thankful things are well handed and I get to know the ugly side of human. I do not know what is the real motive of a few of them but I can tell they did all harmful things just because they thought I did something hurtful to their friend. I don't blame people for protecting, fight for the unfairness regardless they are being told to or they welling do it for the best friend. But, before taking any sisterhood action, please analyse and understand the situation, especially those problems unrelated to you. And persons who enjoy listen gossip, they are hesitate to trust those who spread gossip. That is why I don't even bother to engage them or to make any clarification to anyone. Because people who trust you, will never need you to explain and they will trust you eventually.
I was very down and depressed for a moment. But also received good vibes from friends who knows about what was happening especially my dearest. Cannot deny that sometime those negative energies hit me quite hard until I can't have rational thoughts, affecting me mentally, and I feel like giving them a big slam to shut them off. I also read about articles about life, telling us not to worry about things that we can't control. Time will reveal the truth. As I grow older, I think wiser. My defenses were to stay away and go on my life. I don't show my frustration towards rumors. Because people who start the rumors are
Well, rumors fade away after it stubbornly stayed for almost half year time, or probably people have other better rumors to focus on now (who's the next victim, I hope by reading this can solve yours depression 😍). This post is simply just to inform my readers I'm back on track and to share my personal experience to help who is encountering the same issue.
Remember " Rumors come and go, and it's common to happen in any environment. Most of the time it dies down when you don't engage them, and new issue takes it place." I know it's painful to just let them attack you, they get bored when you don't give a damn on them. Ignoring rumors doesn't mean you are hiding away from it. I just felt that it's unnecessary to clarify to people who was being influenced nor people who start this.
So, I'm good now. ☺
I would also like to take this opportunity to thank friends and family who shows moral supports and those who really wishes and congrats and felt happy for me 💑 by heart. Thank you. 💖