Personality & Attitude

Hii! It's me again. Feel like blogging since last Monday. Just I can't find anytime to continue my hobby *blogging*. Think of this title for quite long as the content are quite complicated to understand. I might not be the correct one, but just to share my personal view. Okay let's start!


Few days ago, my colleague shared with me about her after-married story, it's mostly about her unbearable "mother-in-law".  I asked her whether her mother-in-law behave like this since she (colleague) met her the first day or after  she (colleague) delivered her baby? She stunned for a few second and answered me "I think it's her(mother-in-law) attitude. Then a few seconds later she twisted her answer again. lol. 


Then I saw a very meaningful quote from FB shared by one of the "friend" (friend in fb which idk who is it). 

I'm totally agreed with this quote. Personality is something consistent and enduring. It's like you born with it. Let's get even closer with me. I would like to share one of my personality which I wish not to have. I'm a very easy crying big girl. In Chinese we called as 爱哭包 ai ku bao. Almost all movies or dramas I end up with tears. Even when I'm sleeping, I can feel the sorrow of the dreams like I'm sobbing sadly. Probably someone barely die or I lost my pet, or my enemy wins me! Mom use to tell me, I sob in my sleep since I was a baby. Even now I'm having the same thing. Crying in my sleep and wake up with actual tears and tiring eyes. What the hell is this? =.=" But i'm not sure is't some kind of disease? something due to health? When I'm too happy or touched, I'll cry. When I'm too emotional like scolding someone, I'll cry. Sad, of cause cry larh... I'm trying hard to get rid of this personality. As I said, Personality is what we born with. I failed to lost it, so stay with it even though I hate people threaten others  by "implementing" their crying skill. Luckily, I don't own this personality, nope! come to this incident it doesn't seems like personality, but it's an attitude- something you can control or decide. "to cry or not to cry". I'm not sure you got what I meant.

Basically Attitude is "what I choose to be when I'm with you". Then, it's base on who you are. 

Example: I'm not a person who like to be such a busy-body or kepochee. But I act like one when I'm curious about it or he or she's my idol . So, it's depends on "who you are to me".  

Another example: Sometimes the bf received sms in such a weird time "very early morning or late night" and he insist to read it and replies and he is not planning to share the news with me. Then, I got super crazy and start to guess and imaging all the nonsense scenes. fml. Even sometimes I feel like checking his inbox *i know it's very immoral* . Not trying to say that there's no privacy but just to show an example of my kepochee-ness *And i didn't check the inbox okay! >.<'*. 

But when comes to "nobody to me" who holding the phone texting the whole day in front of me. It doesn't trigger my curiousy as i think he/she is nobody to me. So, there's no any kepochee-ness of me.

That is what attitude mean! In my view okay. 

In summary, to understand one, you must know their personality instead of attitude. When some one is originally not like this but he turns into somebody like this, then you might need to think twice why he or she treat you in the opposite side of his personality.

" Personality is who i'm suppose to be, Attitude is who i suppose to act like. It depends on who you are." 

Okay, goodnight! 

Our 6th Anniversary ❤

Howdy y'all! I'm back from sickness. Recently climate keep changing like every second. Hot sun at this time, and no one knows what will happen next. Heavy rain? Hell ya...  unusual weather, like we are encountering end of the world soon *touchwood*. Almost all fall a sick including me as well.  Serious illness like the X-bacteria was injected to everyone's body. Continuous cough *non-stop like 24 hrs*, fever come-and-go, serious sore throat *it hurts every single time I swallow my saliva* and flu.  Ate all kind of medicines and now fever gone but still coughing and sore throat. ='( Have been searching all ways to relief the sore throat like drinking honey lime, salt water, fruits, and plenty of water. Now still having minor sore. Is okay. Cough is the one ruin my day and get worsen at night. Doctor said I have lung/ airway infection. Whenever I inhale air, my throat get dry and itchy then it causes me coughing like nobody business *waked my boy several time*. I have took the whole bottle of coughing syrup yet, coughing is still here. Help! ='( 

Aiks, was going to talk about our anniversary but end up with sharing how illness I'm. lol. Back to the topic. This is truely a super late post >.<" *very obvious, sick mah!* Our precious moment was on 10th of March 2006. Actually we have forgotten the actual  date we get along but we confirmed it was on March 2006. We picked 10th to make it easy to be remember and symbolized me *my chinese name: 1 0 pronouced the same with the numbering* This year celebration the boyfie think it's a mess as I was fall a sick and the plan was not smooth. We planned to celebrate at Hard Rock Cafe, Malacca. We were searching with no clue but someone told us the cafe is operating and it's nearby jonker street. We drove around and look every shoplot but we seen  non *follow google map direction*. It was locate at the opposite direction. *Hiew!* We were like so excited and parked the car near by and walk to the cafe. Once open the door we saw merchandises like Hard Rock cups, tees, and caps. That is not so-called "Cafe" lorh! The boyfie asked the staff. He told us the cafe is at upstairs and it's still under construction. *Meme face shown by me* - WHY U NO TELL EARLY!!! the boyfie was quite irritated by the luck on that day. He given me a give-up face. I told him is okay, celebrating the day is not the matter of luxury restaurant/ present/ expensive food but the meaning of the day. I told him I'm very happy as I have a boutique of roses and a meaning men celebrating this day with me. Maybe he can't feel my happiness as I was keep coughing and not much words on that day *thanks to the sore throat*. We looked for a few cafe unfortunately they're preparing to close. I suggested to Amigo *Malaccan know this place*. We often go there. We called the friends to join us but they know nothing about the day =). Told them when they saw the cake we bought. Asked them to guess. Most of them guessed correctly. Haha! This year just to share the day with friends. Not bad tho! =)

A simple yet happy day with You, my boy. Thanks for treating me so well. Love you! 

Day before our anniversary, I look back all very precious photos, love letters, cards, gifts, small notes and etc. So-called my treasure box. My mind immediately flashed back all the sweet and painful memories. On that time I can feel my life is so meaningful. 

the Philippian's maid and the "I'm not stupid 2 - Liew Guo Pin 2" .. lol.  the boyfie gonna kill me when he saw this. He noticed I was blogging, told me not to pick this ugly photo. But.. >.<" I insist! Although we both look noobies but this is where we start. ❤ 

When come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

Forgot to take photo with the flower. haha. Thanks for pampering me!

The next day, he signed-up an iPhone 4S for me. Thankiew. He said my phone is going to condemn soon *I have been using it for 4 years +*. 

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Draw Something! lol.

He must be very regret for buying the phone. Haha! 

Okay, bye! sleep now. Goodnite! Love ya baby boy!